It's a common topic that everyone has talked about or will discuss eventually, LOVE. This word can be a little for some and make others melt especially when they think of that special someone. But the question I want examine in this posting today is "Do we really know what LOVE is?" First, let's look at the definition of the word from a biblical standpoint as well as a general definition. For those of you whose actually read the bible, here's the biblical reference: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails - 1 Cor. 13:4-8. Now here is the general definition taken from Merriam-Webster: strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties.
So we have some very vivid definitions of love and how it works. Here is where the issue lies, are we using it the correct way. Some people use 'love' to control people or to manipulate people. Love has even been as an excuse for killing people.
Love, although a small word, has a huge meaning attached to it and is very complex; even more complex than it's adversary, 'hate'. At least when it comes to hate, it's pretty easy to pinpoint who or what it is that you hate. But in the case of love, there are so many questions, decisions, challenges, and problems to be examined.
For generations, men and women all over the world have tried to explain love and its' complications. In all honesty, love is actually dependent upon the individuals involved. My opinion and perspective of love may not be what y'all think about , but in the end, we all want to be loved.
Here's my advice to you: really examine the word 'love' before you jump into the next relationship or jump the broom. It is a word that overused and abused throughout the years. Let's start using 'love' the way that it was intended. For too long, we have misuse each other in the name of love. Learn how to love yourself 110 percent and then you can love others just as easily.
So, the next time you say "I love you" to someone, make sure that you actually mean it. Love y'all and thanks for the support.
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